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Monday, February 17, 2014

It Doesn't Cost Anything To Be Kind

It's been 14 years since the movie "Pay It Forward" debuted. You remember it, right? The one with Kevin Spacey, Helen Hunt and the kid from "The Sixth Sense," Haley Joel Osment. Paying things forward was a big deal for the few years after the movie, but it seems to becoming more and more rare lately and we need to bring it back.

One of my Twitter friends mentioned the other day that the "courtesy wave" seems to be a thing of the past and it really saddened me. Coming from a small town, there's nothing more engrained in my being than the courtesy wave. The courtesy wave I'm referring to doesn't only apply to the roadways - it applies to seeing an acquaintance across a crowded room, or seeing a neighbor walking their dog when you're cruising through the neighborhood on your way home from work. There's nothing at all wrong with a friendly flick of a few fingers that simply let you someone know you're acknowledging their existence.

In a world that's lacking kindness, let's bring some back. There are a ton of things that don't cost a single penny and could make a huge difference in someone's day. 


Need a suggestion? Just snag one of these below. Let's all commit to doing at least one of these today and making someone's day a bit brighter than it might've been ... if we're feeling really crazy, let's try to do at least one of these every single day this week, k?

1. Hold a door - or elevator - open for a person behind you. (Seriously - this shouldn't be a one-time thing, though. Elevator karma is the worst kind of karma out there. If you don't hold it open for someone, the next time you're in a rush it'll inevitably close on you.)

2. Compliment someone.

3. Listen to someone else and not mention yourself. Tell them you believe in their hopes and dreams, too.

4. Share a coupon at the checkout line with a stranger.

5. Donate blood.

6. Tell someone you love them.

7. Pick up litter in a local park while you're walking your pet.

8. Let someone with less items than you checkout before you at the cashier.

9. Donate those hotel toiletries you've accumulated to a local shelter.

10. Overuse the courtesy wave for an entire day.

Ready to make a difference? Let's go!
Ashley

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